Femme on The Spectrum – Autism – High functioning female neurodivergent minds
Episodes
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January 10, 2025
Navigating Family Drama as an Autistic Person
In the latest episode of the podcast ‘Femme on the Spectrum,’ Elizabeth discusses the challenging family dynamics and social manipulation primarily experienced by neurodivergent individuals. This episode offers an in-depth look into the difficulties of being an autistic truth-teller in a family environment often full of unspoken rules and hidden agendas. Elizabeth shares her personal […]
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January 9, 2025
Behind the Sweet Mask: Enablers of Narcissistic Abuse and Neurodivergent Insight
In this episode of Femme on the Spectrum, host Elizabeth discusses the prevalent issue of enablers of narcissistic abuse, particularly in the context of neurodivergent individuals. She defines enablers as those who lend overt or covert support to narcissists, often posing as helpful people, which makes them as toxic as the narcissists themselves. She further […]
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December 27, 2024
Navigating Naivety: How Autism Makes You a Magnet for Manipulation… and Why That’s Hilariously Heartbreakin
In the podcast episode of “Femme on the Spectrum,” Elizabeth addresses the sensitive topic of naivety and manipulation. With a significant percentage of autistic adults reporting victimization by manipulation, she embarks on a deep-dive into how the natural, transparent disposition common among neurodivergent individuals can sometimes be exploited. Sharing personal anecdotes about exploitative friendships, she […]
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December 27, 2024
From Scapegoats to Truth Bombs: An Autistic Woman’s Guide to Surviving Society
In this episode of Femme on the Spectrum, host Elizabeth discusses the increased susceptibility of autistic women to various forms of abuse, including emotional, financial, social, and physical. The conversation explores why autistic women are more likely to become targets, emphasizing potential challenges with interpreting social cues and the complexity of their natural transparency and […]
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December 19, 2024
Unmasking Autism in Women: The Superpower You Didn’t See Coming.
In this episode of Femme on the Spectrum, Elizabeth debunks some prevalent misconceptions about autism, celebrating it as a unique and valuable way of processing information, rather than a deficit. She explores the practice of ‘masking’—the ability of autistic individuals to blend into their surroundings by mimicking social behaviors. While highlighting the strengths such as […]
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December 17, 2024
Why Do Autistic Women Fall for Narcissists? (But See Through Everyone Else’s BS)
In this episode of Femme on the Spectrum, Elizabeth delves into the complex and often misunderstood dynamic between autistic women and narcissists. She discusses how these women, despite their innate ability to detect deception, frequently fall for the manipulative tactics of narcissists due to their hyper-empathy and challenges with setting boundaries. Drawing from personal experiences […]
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November 28, 2024
Autistic view of Why Society’s Recipe for Women is a Crap Sandwich—and How I Finally Spit It Out
Welcome to the summary of Femme on the Spectrum, an enlightening podcast where the host, Elizabeth, critically examines societal expectations and norms, focusing on the lens of autism and feminism. She discusses the traditional narratives that gaslight women, and particularly autistic women, into conforming to a skewed societal checklist. From her personal experiences, Elizabeth articulates […]
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November 27, 2024
Dear Neurotypicals: What We Wish You Knew (But Were Too Tired to Explain)
The podcast script for “Femme on the Spectrum” is hosted by Elizabeth, an autistic adult who was diagnosed later in life. She explores different aspects of autism while sharing personal experiences, aiming to raise awareness and understanding about day-to-day challenges faced by autistic adults. She delves into the concept of “masking,” the act of conforming […]
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November 15, 2024
Gaslit, Not Gullible: Standing Up for Ourselves in a World That’d Rather We Didn’t
In the podcast “Femme on the Spectrum,” Elizabeth dives into issues ranging from abuse recognition to the value of autistic integrity. She discusses ‘flying monkeys,’ enablers of abuse, explaining how understanding this dynamic can help individuals set boundaries and protect their truths. Elizabeth then talks about the social struggles autistic people face due to their […]
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November 11, 2024
Faking Perfection: Neurodivergent Moms and the Art of Masking
In this episode of “Femme on the Spectrum”, Elizabeth discusses the challenges and emotional exhaustion neurodivergent moms face. She explains the concept of ‘masking’, a facade neurodivergent individuals display to blend into neurotypical society, and how it impacts everyday tasks and social interactions. She also shares her personal experiences, unraveling the realities behind the seemingly […]
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November 1, 2024
The Alchemist-The Resilience of how to walk right through judgement. Highlighting Martha Stewart
The podcast discusses the intriguing life of Martha Stewart, highlighting her rise from a modest upbringing to becoming the queen of DIY projects, her Wall Street career, her infamous insider trading scandal, and her time behind bars. It scrutinizes the double standards powerful women come up against, noting how Martha’s driven personality was seen as […]
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October 27, 2024
When Family Betrays: Autism, Domestic Violence, and the Weaponization of Blame
In this episode of “Femme on the Spectrum”, host Elizabeth shares her deeply personal tale of domestic violence, gaslighting, and emotional abuse within her family, framing her experiences through the lens of having autism. She discusses how her neurodivergency compounded these challenges, making social dynamics trickier to navigate, and how they were manipulated against her. […]
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October 25, 2024
Abortion Rights, Religion, and the Convenient Mask of Misogyny with Trump
In this episode of Femme on the Spectrum, Elizabeth dives into a controversial topic: the intertwining of religion, specifically interpretations of the Bible, and women’s reproductive rights, with a special focus on abortion rights. Contradicting popular belief, she clarifies how the Bible doesn’t explicitly mention or condemn abortion, and discusses historical and societal manipulation that […]
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October 19, 2024
Autism in Women: 7 Signs You’re Not Just ‘Quirky’—You’re Neurospicy!
The podcast episode, Femme on the Spectrum, hosts an in-depth discussion about the seven key signs of autism in women and the struggles and misunderstoods that come with it. The host, Elizabeth, covers an array of topics from the concept of social chameleons—hailed as a survival strategy employed by women on the spectrum—to understanding sensory […]
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October 19, 2024
Bowling Alone? More Like Social Striking Out for Autistic Adults!
In this thought-provoking episode of the Femme on the Spectrum podcast, host Elizabeth dives into the concept of social capital and its deep-rooted impact on the lives of high-functioning autistic adults. Drawing from Robert Putnam’s book, ‘Bowling Alone’, she underscores society’s declining social capital and its influence on autistic adults’ experiences. Highlighting the significant challenges […]
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October 18, 2024
2024 Election- Autistic Politics: Voting with Sensory Overload
In the podcast “Femme on the Spectrum,” Liz discusses politics from a neurodivergent perspective, focusing on the upcoming 2024 election face-off between Kamala Harris and Donald Trump. The podcast touches on how neurodivergent individuals like those with autism and ADHD, process politics differently, often with a focus on detailed analysis of policy rather than emotional […]
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October 17, 2024
Family Dynamics and High-Functioning Autistic Women: Navigating Competitiveness and Undermining
In this episode of “Femme on the Spectrum,” host Elizabeth explores the peculiar and often challenging dynamics faced by high-functioning autistic women within competitive families. Highlighting how honesty and loyalty can sometimes be exploited by competitive family members, she unpicks different manipulative strategies, like weaponizing honesty, acting sweet and helpful, or claiming neutrality, that contribute […]
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October 9, 2024
We Thought It Was Just Loud Italians—Turns Out, It’s Autism!
Contact: Liz@lizbucher.com The podcast “Femme on the Spectrum” hosted by Elizabeth delves into the genetic and hereditary nature of autism, particularly from a female perspective. Elizabeth discusses how many women are diagnosed with autism later in life, often spurred by their kid’s diagnosis, and reflects on her own parents’ behavior that may suggest they were […]
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October 9, 2024
Pineapples, Pineapples! Navigating Social Cues as an Autistic Adult (Plus, Why We Over-Text)
The podcast, “Femme on the Spectrum”, hosted by Elizabeth, dives into the realities of being an autistic adult. In the episode, she discusses how she and others with autism perceive social cues and how misunderstandings may arise from it. Elizabeth shares personal anecdotes to illustrate her points, such as her late-night texting habit which led […]
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October 8, 2024
The Autism-PTSD Connection: Navigating Trauma When You’re Neurodivergent
“Femme on the Spectrum,” hosted by Elizabeth, explores the significant yet often overlooked link between autism and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). Delving into the science behind autism, the episode uncovers how neurodivergent individuals are more susceptible to trauma due to their unique brain processing. Topics such as rejection sensitivity, over-explaining, and experiences of trauma […]
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October 8, 2024
Autistic Women and Friendship: I Missed Your Social Cue, But I Still Love You
In this episode of “Femme on the Spectrum”, Elizabeth opens up about the intricacies of friendships for autistic women, uncovering how they require deep, meaningful connections and value honesty and loyalty. She delves into the concept of ‘masking’ and how it can be overwhelming due to the constant effort to appear ‘normal’ in social settings. […]
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October 8, 2024
Narcissism vs. Autism: Misjudgments, Misunderstandings, and the Mighty Mask of Neurodivergence
Sources: Weiss, J. A., & Fardella, M. A. (2018). Trauma and Autism Spectrum Disorder: Review of Research and Clinical Implications. Autism Research. Zablotsky, B., Bradshaw, C. P., Anderson, C. M., & Law, P. A. (2013). The association between bullying and the mental health of children with autism spectrum disorder. Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders. […]
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October 6, 2024
Roe Got Overturned and So Did My Meltdown- How Autism Supercharged My Feminism
In this insightful and empowering episode of Femme on the Spectrum, hosted by Liz Bucher, the intersections of Roe v. Wade, autism, and bodily autonomy are explored in-depth. Liz discusses her heightened sense of justice, sparked by her neurodivergent mind, and the correlations between reproductive rights and the neurodivergent population. She touches upon the historic […]
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October 6, 2024
What is Autism? Am I Autistic? Wait what?…Unlocking the Puzzle (Hint: You Might Already Be Holding the Pieces)
In this episode of the Femme on the Spectrum podcast, Elizabeth provides a comprehensive exploration of what it means to be a woman on the autism spectrum. She delves into understanding autism, its signs, the impact of masking, and the correlation with anxiety. Emphasizing the term “neurodivergent”, Elizabeth introduces introspective questions designed to help listeners […]
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October 6, 2024
Life as an Overachieving Autistic: Where’s My Oscar? – This one’s for the GenX and Millennials.
In the podcast episode “Femme on the Spectrum,” Elizabeth delves into the world of neurodiversity, discussing the struggles and triumphs of living with high-functioning autism and ADHD. She elaborates on the concept of “masking,” a survival tactic many neurodivergent people use to blend into societal norms, and shares her own personal experiences growing up. Not […]
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October 5, 2024
I’m Not Overreacting, You’re Just Under-Understanding- and Other Neurotypical Shenanigans
In this episode of “Femme on the Spectrum,” Elizabeth discusses the challenges of growing up neurodivergent in a neurotypical family, facing constant misunderstandings, judgments, and a constant pressure to be seen as “normal.” She also confronts impactful experiences with rejection sensitivity, explaining how casual remarks can spiral into all-encompassing self-doubt. Elizabeth then explores creative ways […]
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October 5, 2024
I Would, But You Asked” – Navigating PDA
In this episode of Femme on the Spectrum, Elizabeth explores the complex topic of Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA), an autism profile marked by a strong need to avoid all demands and expectations. She explains that individuals with PDA are not simply being difficult or stubborn, but instead, their resistance comes from a place of feeling […]
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October 4, 2024
Love Shouldn’t Feel Like a Wrestling Match: Domestic Violence and Autism
Contact: liz@lizbucher.com https://www.thehotline.org/ In this episode of Femme on the Spectrum, Elizabeth delves into the topic of domestic violence, especially as it pertains to autistic women. She explores the factors that play a role in this complex issue—dissecting the impact of reality, vulnerability, communication challenges, dependence on partners, normalization of abusive behaviors, the need for […]
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October 4, 2024
Drama Queens or Just Wired Differently? The Truth About Meltdowns
Contact: liz@lizbucher.com
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October 4, 2024
Unmasking the Chaos: Living Life with late diagnosed Autism, AuDHD and a Super Nose!
In the inaugural episode of the ‘Femme on the Spectrum’ podcast, hosted by Elizabeth, listeners learn about being a late-diagnosed autistic woman and living with both autism and ADHD. Elizabeth discusses her beginnings as a shy child and using masking to fit societal expectations, often leading to feelings of exhaustion, stress and a need for […]